A New Year means a fresh start. Come January and everything seems new somehow, at least that’s how I look at it. Talking about resolutions, they are something I try to make (and keep) every year without fail, notwithstanding the fact that it’s barely February and I realize that yet again, I have failed miserably at it. The longest I’ve ever managed to stick to a resolution is just over four months; two years ago, I decided to turn vegan and vehemently stuck to the resolution till after April. I consider that an achievement of sorts. :P
So this year around, we tried something different. Instead of keeping individual resolutions, we decided to zero in on three resolutions that we would keep together as a family. This way, if one or more of us begins to lose our way, the others will be there to hopefully help them back on to the right path. After much brainstorming on New Year Eve, here are the three resolutions on all our cards this 2017.
Unplugging – The new luxury
Post-dinner, it’s gadget-free time for the entire family (including the better half and me). It has always been an unsaid rule at our place that mealtimes are to be tech-free times – no mobile phones, no tablets, no television too. We’ve decided to take this a step further and do all our gadget/electronic work/play pre dinner time. Be it my writing on the computer, the daughter’s favorite virtual games, the son’s doodling on paint or their daddy’s never-ending e-mails and work meetings, all need to be over and done with once dinner is on the table. We might end up playing a board game, or reading an actual, physical book or even just narrating stories to one another. It will definitely be time well spent.
Kitchen – The heart of the home
Long ago, I once came across a quote that has somehow stayed with me till date; it said – ‘A kitchen is a place where memories are homemade and seasoned with love.’ Back in my childhood, I remember helping my mum bake cookies during holidays, but that’s about it. We never really whipped up an entire meal together as a family. However, better late than never; we’ve decided to change that. Every weekend, all four of us will decide on the menu for the day together, and prepare an entire meal from scratch. With everyone pitching in (read: the kids), it’s bound to be a messy affair. But, that’s (hopefully) the fun of it!
Gardening – Happily digging in the dirt
We have a small pocket square kitchen garden at the back of our house. This New Year we’ve driven in small signposts in each corner, with one corner designated to one member of the family. I love nasturtiums so obviously they are the first on my check-list of things to grow, while the little ones have their heart set on sunflowers since those flowers are ‘the brightest and the best’ (in my son’s words). Daddy dearest doesn’t remotely have any idea what plant or vegetable or flower will occupy pride of place in his corner, so he’s decided to set up a bird feeder as a beginning. Well, as long as we’re all happily occupied in making our corner the most beautiful, it’s going to be a resolution well kept! Also, here are a couple of interesting kids’ gardening project ideas for a start.
What do you think of our new initiative? Here’s hoping we stick to our unique New Year resolutions for a long, long time!